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Occam's Razor

Lessons of History

Summary by James Clear

The Right Kind of Stubborn

By Paul Graham

King Oedipus

Birth and Prophecy: Oedipus was born to King Laius and Queen Jocasta of Thebes. A prophecy foretold that Oedipus would kill his father and marry his mother. To prevent this, Laius and Jocasta ordered that their newborn son be abandoned on a mountainside.

Adoption and Youth: The infant Oedipus was found and adopted by King Polybus and Queen Merope of Corinth. Unaware of his true parentage, Oedipus grew up believing Polybus and Merope were his biological parents.

Fulfillment of the Prophecy: As a young man, Oedipus learned of the prophecy and, believing Polybus and Merope to be his real parents, fled Corinth to avoid fulfilling it. On his journey, he encountered and killed an older man during a confrontation, not knowing the man was his biological father, Laius. Oedipus continued to Thebes, where he solved the riddle of the Sphinx, freeing the city from its curse. As a reward, he was made king and married the widowed queen, Jocasta, his biological mother.

Discovery and Downfall: Years later, Thebes was struck by a plague. Oedipus sought to find the cause and learned the truth about his origins. Upon discovering that he had indeed killed his father and married his mother, Jocasta committed suicide, and Oedipus blinded himself in despair.

Socratic Irony

Socrates forced people to use their common sense by playing ignorant. He pretended to be dumber than he was.

Anticipatory Socialization

The process of preparing for future roles and situations by learning and adopting the behaviors, values, and norms associated with them. It's an important part of human socialization that can occur throughout life, and it can help people fit into new social groups more easily.

Hamartia

A flaw in character that brings about the downfall of the hero of a tragedy: tragic flaw. Examples: Greed was the hamartia that ultimately brought down the protagonist.

People are more similar than different

By Brian Chesky (20:45 - 21:35)

Why do we act good?

You can't exist without causing damage

You're afraid that if this person dislikes you, they'll hold a grudge against you, and one day you might need something from them, and then this mistake you made years ago will come back and haunt you.

This is you: running around, frantically catching butterflies, with the hope that you'll prevent a tornado.

What's the most good I can do, given the inevitable harm that will result from my actions?

The Antithesis Principle

The Secrets Behind Great Products at The Biggest Companies

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Resentment

By Jordan Peterson

Resentment tells us 2 things:

If something makes you resentful, do not do that thing.

Jevon's Paradox

The Jevons paradox, also known as the Jevons effect, is an economic concept that states that increased efficiency in resource use will lead to increased resource consumption over time. This is because the lower cost of using a resource leads to increased demand, which can offset the lower rate of resource use.

Why do women like when men remember dates?

Devotion & respect is a core need for love in women. Goddesses are worshipped on special days and if you remember important days and events, it means you are devoted to them, which makes them feel special.

- Thought this insight while reading Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus.

99 Additional Bits of Unsolicited Advice

By Kevin Kelly

My Favs:

Not Everywhere…

शैले शैले न माणिक्यं मौक्तिकं न गजे गजे

साधवो न हि सर्वत्र चन्दनं न वने वने

The art of letting go

By Vikas Divyakirti

तआ'रुफ़ रोग हो जाए तो उस का भूलना बेहतर

त'अल्लुक़ बोझ बन जाए तो उस को तोड़ना अच्छा

वो अफ़्साना जिसे अंजाम तक लाना न हो मुमकिन

उसे इक ख़ूब-सूरत मोड़ दे कर छोड़ना अच्छा

Hegelian Synthesis

In the dialectical philosophy of Georg Wilhelm Friedrich Hegel, synthesis is the stage of a three-part structure that resolves the tension between a thesis and an antithesis:

Acceptance Prophecy

How some friendships last — and others don’t

Psychologists find that when people expect to be well-liked, they often unknowingly come across as warmer and friendlier. The more new people you meet, the more confident you'll likely feel.

Wit's End

"At one's wits' end" is an idiom meaning to be so confused, worried, or annoyed that you don't know what to do next. Example: "I don't know how to help him. I'm at my wits' end."

Pantheism

The Rashomon Effect

A phenomenon that describes how people's perceptions of an event can differ based on their individual experiences.

Pavlov's theory of classical conditioning

Classical conditioning refers to learning that occurs

Low Context Vs High Context Societies

By Erin Meyer